Our bodies hold memories and imprints of our past experiences. The trauma at the root of our anxiety, and maladaptive behaviors can’t be resolved without our body finding a way to release these memories and imprints.  Sustained healing only happens when our nervous system regains equilibrium. Somatic Experiencing (SE) helps us move beyond the cognitive process of understanding our trauma. It’s a process that reprograms the body’s primitive survival instincts, allowing one to feel a greater sense of connection, safety, and ease in one’s body. 

When we think about trauma in our lives, we often refer to an event:             Trauma is an event, but it is also the energy that gets locked in your body around real or perceived threat. 

The extent to which a person experiences trauma is directly related to their ability to restore a sense of safety in the aftermath of the threatening event. If they’re unable to effectively do that, their nervous system gets stuck in the survival states of fight, flight, or freeze. 

These survival states are only useful for acute states of threat. When an individual gets stuck in a trauma reaction because they cannot restore their sense of safety, the individual will continually sense danger when danger is not present, or completely shut down and lose capacity to live in the present. 

Think about your own experiences, have you ever found yourself over-reacting  to a situation for no obvious reason?                                                    This is often due to the unresolved trauma from the past that is locked in your nervous system.

To illustrate this, let’s think of our brains always acting in two ways: “survival brain” or “safe brain.” In a safe brain state, we are open to learning new information and can see the big picture of a situation. We feel calm, peaceful, curious, and unafraid of making mistakes. When the survival brain is turned on, we are hyper-focused, we feel a sense of threat and cannot tolerate ambiguity.

Fear dominates our decision-making skills, and we often lose our sense of competence.                                  

Safe brain is expansive and life feels vital and joyful.                                          Survival brain creates misperception, ambiguity, and threat.                       The better we can manage our stress reaction, the easier we can keep out of survival brain. This takes time and effort and requires that we develop a tolerance of uncomfortable sensation in the body. 

By growing our ability to tolerate discomfort, we gain the capacity to move through our challenges and the knowledge that we can safely come through the other side of a difficult experience. 

When trauma strikes, the nervous system loses its ability to maintain a state of balance. The trapped energy from the traumatic experience causes the nervous system to rush to a state of fight, or flight — the over-reaction that we discussed earlier.  

Somatic Experiencing  works to help bring the nervous system back on line by helping the individual restore their sense of safety.  This can only happen when the body has a “biological completion” and the trauma energy has the opportunity to reintegrate back into the body.